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Wednesday, December 28, 2011
Greatest Gifts
Each year when we make our Christmas lists, everyone, including Hubby T and me, will include on the list a charity or organization that they would like to make a gift to. The idea is that each of us will sacrifice a present we would normally receive and have that money instead be donated. I am hopeful that this will teach our children that it is more blessed to give than to receive and that they, who are so abundantly blessed, have a responsibility to give to those who are not. (Actually, I really hope that they eventually come to make this gift because they want to, not because they have to. God loves a cheerful giver, right?!)
This is the first year that all three of us gave and received "greatest gifts." Hubby T and Baby B gave my gift to the International Justice Mission, a human rights organization that fights for the victims of slavery, sexual exploitation, and other forms of violent oppression around the world. Baby B and I made a gift for Hubby T to Haiti Partners, an organization that is helping to rebuild Haiti and improve the country through education (and one of our friends from college works for them!) Hubby T and I made a gift to World Vision on behalf of Baby B, specifically to the fund that provides vaccinations for children around the world.
As I survey the vast mounds of presents that were so generously given to us by friends and family this year, I am glad that I have these "greatest gifts" in my heart to remind me that Christmas isn't just about the material things that we give and receive. It's about extending love to others, just as God extended his love to all mankind by sending his son to Earth. My hope is that every year our family will keep the cards and letters we receive from the organizations we support and put them in a scrapbook so that over time we will have a book to look back on and remember all those to whom we extended God's love.
What organization would you want your "greatest gift" to go to? Have you supported them yet this year? I hope that you will make room in your heart and wallet to do so.
Saturday, December 24, 2011
Merry Christmas Eve
I have spent a fair amount of time today thinking about the holiday traditions that Hubby T and I each grew up with and thinking about how we are incorporating them (or not) into our new family. Baby B isn't old enough to remember any of this, so I consider this year a practice run for future years. All in all it was a pretty good day!
I don't ever remember football being a part of my Christmas Eve. But it certainly was today! I give Hubby T credit for being willing to go to the 5 pm childrens service at church since it meant missing three quarters of the Eagles game. (Go Eagles, even though your season is basically over!)
When my sister and I were growing up, the elves always came sometime on Christmas Eve to fill our stockings (usually during nap time or, in later years, while we were at church). I always looked forward to opening a couple small presents the day before Christmas, it extended the present fun. In our past discussions about this topic Hubby T has been pretty adamant that we do stockings on Christmas Day. I've mostly caved to him, but on the way home tonight he indicated that it might still be open for discussion. I guess we'll just have to wait and see what those crafty elves do next year:)
My mom always made clam chowder for dinner on Christmas Eve. I'm not sure why, it may have something to do with her Catholic childhood. Either way, since I'm the queen of the kitchen and Hubby T eats whatever I give him without complaining, that is a tradition that is continuing. I made the soup this afternoon and then left it in a crock pot to keep warm while we were at church. It was wonderful to have dinner ready and waiting when we got home (and toffee snickerdoodles for dessert!).
Finally, when Hubby T was growing up, his dad always read The Night Before Christmas before putting the kids to bed on Christmas Eve. This is a tradition we're both excited about keeping with our children. So Hubby T read it tonight, to a squirming Baby B who was more interested in playing with the phone charger on the bed than listening to the story. Oh well, hopefully next year will go better:)
I've also been thinking lots of thoughts today about the true meaning of Christmas. You know, Jesus is the reason for the season and so forth. But I'm tired and don't have the energy to express those thoughts as eloquently as I'd like. So hopefully you went to church tonight and got a taste of the awesomeness of worshiping God on Christmas Eve. I'll try to get those thoughts out soon. In the meantime, sleep in heavenly peace friends:)
Wednesday, December 21, 2011
Merry almost Christmas!
Baby B still hasn't said "ho ho ho" for us yet, but he is getting more into the Christmas spirit. He and Baby D had a great time opening his present from Baby D yesterday.
No way Baby D, that's my bow!!
I figured out that if I make a little tear in the paper, Baby B will grab it and keep tearing. He's getting in some good practice so that we don't have the longest present opening sessions ever with our families next week:)
The verdict is still out on whether the wrapping paper or the puzzle it covered is more exciting. I guess we'll find out next week!
Sunday, December 18, 2011
Christmas party
I think he spent more time kind of walking on it rather than riding, but that's okay. Everyone contributed some delicious food and drinks to share. Baby B isn't quite old enough to join everyone at the big kid table, but he kept himself occupied.
We moms organized a kids gift exchange, so we tried to get all the kids to sit down together so that they could each hand out their presents. We corralled and settled down almost all the kids, and then Baby B decided to crawl out a couple paces. This was the start of our downfall. In an effort to entertain the kids one of the dads suggested that everyone get on their hands and knees too...which led to everyone not only being in the crawling position but actually crawling....which led to this -
So much for sitting together nicely!! Baby B got to open his very first Christmas present with Hubby T's help. As anybody could have predicted, he was happy after pulling off the bow! He'll come to appreciate the Little People tractor that was inside though:)
Our small group has seen several people come and go this year, which hasn't always been easy. But the group and the families in it are a huge blessing in our life and it was great fun to celebrate the holiday season with them. Merry Christmas friends, we love you all very much!!
Thursday, December 15, 2011
When Hubby T is sick
- Our bedroom becomes the quarantine room. We love you Daddy dear, but don't want your flu bug, so we will love you from the doorway until you are better.
- The guest room is now Mommy's room! Which means all the Christmas presents that were accumulating on the guest bed had to be moved before I could go to bed last night. Which reminded me just how much wrapping I have to do...
- Mommy feeds Baby B all of his meals. Normally I only give him lunch, Hubby T feeds him breakfast and dinner. While it's not much trouble to feed him, it is a bit strange, just goes to show how much I rely on Hubby T (see last point).
- Daddy's car sits in the driveway when he doesn't go to work in the morning, so when we were running late for playgroup, we ended up being super later because I had to move his car before I could move the Baby B-mobile. When our family gets out of it's routine, boy are things messed up!!
- Completely unrelated to Hubby T's sickness, check our Mr. Hawaii Five-O!
I held Baby B up to his closet this morning and said, "What do you want to wear bud?" and he chose this awesome surfboard covered shirt. He looks so stylishly handsome:)
- Also unrelated to Hubby T's sickness, Baby B demonstrated his growing brain today by sorting his corn and carrots into separate piles all by himself!
I never cease to be amazed at these moments when I turn around and realize that he's just done something that he's never done before. Totally awesome. And, and in case you were wondering how that meal turned out, the answer is messy. Baby D sat in my lap in awe.
- The real lesson of the last two sickly days, however, is that I have massive amounts of respect for single parents. By the strength of God, I have had the energy to entertain two little boys for the last two days and get through the end of the days with Baby B with relative ease. Doing it every day though, by myself, on top of everything else single parents have to deal with (like say, a job!) is nearly unfathomable to me. Thank heaven for Hubby T and all the love and support he gives us (when he's not germy that is!!:)
Tuesday, December 13, 2011
Good reading
Have you ever read Pope Joan by Donna Woolfolk Cross? I'm so glad my friend chose this to read for book club because it was fantastic. It's based on an actual person, or legend, it's a piece of Catholic Church history that's not really known. It tells the story of Joan, a young woman living in the Dark Ages, who passionately pursues learning, even though it was strongly frowned upon by those around her, including her family. Her life journey leads her to a point where she assumes her deceased brother John's identity, joins a monastery, and eventually becomes Pope. You can see why the Catholic Church would deny this person's existence, a woman pope? But the story is filled with so many things that I love - history, religion, womens rights, even a little romance. If you're looking for a compelling page turner to read over your Christmas break, this is it.
The other book I just finished reading is The Host by Stephanie Meyer (author of the Twilight series). This was an unusual book for me to not only read but also to love, because I am not a science fiction gal at all, and this book is science fiction. But I think the reason I love it so much is that it's more a story of humans and human relationships set in a science fiction setting. The premise of the book is that the end of the world has come and all humans were taken over by "souls" except for the few that resisted and are in hiding. The story is told from the point of view of Wanderer, the soul who lives in Melanie's body, except that Melanie doesn't disappear, both minds stay active in Melanie/Wanderer's body. Sharing one body joins them together and they embark on a journey to find Melanie's family. In the process Wanderer learns what it means to be a human. There are a lot of great themes in the book, like loving others more than yourself, forgiveness and mercy, and learning to understand a situation from your "enemy's" perspective. This book also showed me that I really like Stephanie Meyer as an author. This book was a fingernail biting page turner the same way Twilight was, as in I hated to put the book down at night and go to bed because I was so engrossed in the story and couldn't wait to read what happened next. Books like that are hard to come by but I love it when I find them and am sad it's over. I'm sure Hubby T isn't sad though, now he's free to talk to me at breakfast again!
And what has Baby B (who is eleven months old today, by the way) been reading? We don't have much of a Christmas storybook collection yet so we've been supplementing with books from the library. Two of our favorites so far are Merry Christmas Big Hungry Bear and A Charlie Brown Christmas with interactive sounds. Baby B hasn't quite figured out the sound buttons yet but I think he still likes it. Auntie A bought us a copy of The Night Before Christmas but we have to save that one because Hubby T's family tradition is for the dad to read that to the kids on Christmas Eve. Another first for our family that we're all looking forward to:)
Sunday, December 11, 2011
More Christmas fun
The Christmas highlight of our week was cookie baking yesterday! My aunt sent me an early present, a set of ten star-shaped cookie cutters that can be arranged to create a Christmas cookie tree!
Baby B was a great helper when it came to decorating the cookies.
I think my cookie tree turned out pretty good!
I'm not sure if it actually looks like a tree but I do think it looks pretty. Can you tell the bottom star broke in about 4 different places? I've never cut out a cookie that big!! Oh well, it'll still taste good. Right Baby B?!
He thinks yes:) I think we have a little cookie monster on our hands now!!
Thursday, December 8, 2011
Advent Devotional
After Jesus was born in Bethlehem in Judea, during the time of King Herod, Magi from the east came to Jerusalem and asked, “Where is the one who has been born king of the Jews? We saw his star in the east and have come to worship him.” When King Herod heard this he was disturbed, and all Jerusalem with him.
Matthew 2: 1-3
Which character do you identify with in this story? Do you identify with the Magi, who traveled a long distance away from home in search of a Messiah? Or do you identify with King Herod, who was disturbed to hear that a Messiah had come to earth? As much as we might not want to admit it, King Herod’s thinking was understandable, at least if you look at the situation from an earthly standpoint. But let’s look at these characters from a different point of view.From God’s perspective, the Magi left everything in their lives behind to travel a long distance in search of the Messiah. It was probably easier for them to do that than we might understand because they knew what they were looking for. Prophecies told them that God had come to earth in human form; He was concrete, someone they could see and talk to. Throughout all of history that hadn’t happened often, but here was there chance to see God in person! They also knew the significance of what they were looking for, that the prophecies and promises of the scriptures were coming true through the birth of this child. They came by themselves, willing to go the distance even if others didn’t believe. And they came to worship, one of the things that God desires most from his children.
King Herod’s reaction to the Magi’s news was probably not what God was hoping for. Instead of rejoicing at the news that God had come to Earth in the form of the Messiah, King Herod was disturbed, troubled, anxious, and perhaps even suspicious. He may have felt threatened by the prospect of an authority on Earth that had more power than him. And as the leader of the people of Jerusalem, he led a whole city of God’s children into his doubt and worry as well, instead of worship.
What is our reaction to the news that God is in our world? Are we excited, like the Magi? Are we willing to re-prioritize our life to make room to seek after and worship God? Or are we disturbed, skeptical, suspicious, even threatened by someone claiming to be God’s presence in our world?
The Good News is that the Magi were right. And because Jesus came to this world, we have the opportunity, as God’s forgiven and redeemed children, to follow in the footsteps of the Magi. The decision to follow God has always been left in our hands. Will you make time to seek after and worship our Lord this season? Will you encourage those around you to do the same?
Tuesday, December 6, 2011
Random things
- Yesterday I looked over while doing dishes to discover this -
Look at that "Whoops, Mom caught me! I didn't do it!" face. My son was standing up by the high chair and reaching up to the seat to find whatever crumbs of food Baby D dropped while he was eating and then eating them himself. Very resourceful Baby B, but really? I do feed you your own food you know!! To be fair, Baby D did the same thing later that day, except instead of eating Baby B's food, he was chewing on his foot. Yup, not kidding. He loves chewing on Baby B's socks, so I wasn't that surprised, but normally he chews on them when they are off Baby B's foot!
- I made this Panko-Crusted Salmon last night from the Barefoot Contessa's How Easy Is That? cookbook. It was super delicious and super easy, you should try it.
- We discovered very quickly this year that there is no heavenly peace to be found in Baby B's nativity scene. This is how his wonderful baby-friendly Nativity scene looks when I set it up.
The wise men with their camel, the Baby Jesus surrounded by his parents, the animals all looking on. So peaceful. So nice. So orderly.
This is what it looks like after Baby B gets his hands on it.
Ahh! I know it's designed to be messed around with by crazy babies like mine. I find it equal parts sad and hilarious to see Baby B and Baby D use Baby Jesus as a basketball with our basketball hoop, and to watch them tear the Angel off the top and throw him around as violently as possible as often as possible. (I've mostly given up putting him back up.) It's okay, someday Baby B will understand the meaning of his Nativity scene. In the meantime, we'll have to keep him away from his Gramma's Lladro Nativity scene!
- For the last year and a half, almost without any breaks, Hubby T has been working his way through several online classes. As a teacher, the only way to get a pay increase is through years of experience or getting more education. Since we can't control or speed up the former, Hubby T has been steadily working on the later. As of last night, he completed his last class and, once the paperwork goes through, he will officially have a Master's Degree plus 15 credits, which equals a slight pay increase! Way to go Hubby T. Baby B and I are grateful for all your hard work, you are an awesome husband and father:)
Sunday, December 4, 2011
Yay for the Christmas season!
Hubby T and I picked up our Christmas tree from Costco on Friday night ($30 - what a deal!) and decorated it last night after Baby B went to bed. We slightly rearranged the furniture in our family room so that the tree is mostly blocked off from grabby baby hands. That doesn't stop him from being curious though.
Oh yes, and those overalls, perhaps the cutest most Christmas-y thing of all so far.
My grandmother smocked these for Baby B and they could not have turned out more adorable. Those are three little reindeer on the front, and each one has a little bell sewn around its neck, which provided great entertainment in the car ride home from church today.
You can just see his little brain thinking, "Is it cool that my clothes make noise or is my mom just crazy?" I love making him look so cute:)
We also experienced one of my other favorite parts of Christmas today - spending time with family! My dad spent the afternoon with us, which consisted of playing with Baby B, taking naps, and watching football. Baby B especially liked his playtime with Grampa.
He also helped me hang his very first ornament, which his Mom-Mom gave him a couple weeks ago.
Okay, so maybe he'll be more eager to help hang ornaments next year. Anyway, I think he was also happy today because he totally rocked his little Chargers hoodie sweatshirt. He's such a little man!!
Okay, a little man who fits in a diaper box:) Anyway, there should be more Christmas festivities to come in the next couple weeks, stay tuned!
Thursday, December 1, 2011
Bliss is...
Bliss:)
Tuesday, November 29, 2011
God moment and Baby B's kissing face
In the meantime, here's my cool God story of the day. On Saturday Baby B and I were shopping at Costco. They had some fleecy footsie pajamas for sale, which look so cute on Baby B and they were only $6! I really wanted to get him a pair but I resisted, because he doesn't really need them and they're not in our budget. I was a little bummed but had moved past it. This morning my sister called me and the mom of the baby she nannies for offered to give us the 10 twelve-month sized footsie pajamas that her baby has grown out of. Whoa! I love experiencing God's faithfulness in unexpected ways.
And here's my silly Baby B pictures of the day. My baby brain games book says that babies love to look at themselves in a mirror, and you can play all sorts of games with them pointing out body parts, etc. My baby likes to kiss himself when he looks in a mirror.
And when you take the mirror away, this is what his face looks like!
Now tell me who wouldn't want to kiss that?!
Friday, November 25, 2011
Over the river and through the woods...
I love to watch the Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade. My favorite parts of the parade, the Broadway show acts and the Rockettes, are all on in the beginning, so I focus on those and then keep it on in the background while helping my mom cook. My contributions to our dinner were peeling lots of squash and making this delicious Pumpkin Banana Mousse Tart. It's like pumpkin pie except better, unless you're my sister, who is a pumpkin pie purist. I don't think we'll ever agree on this Auntie A, but I'll say it again because it's my blog and I can - my dessert is better!
I'm not sure if my family had more fun with Baby B or if he had more fun with them. After all, it's not everyday that you get to share your rice cracker with your adoring Grandpa...
...or eat from a silver spoon (literally) with your adoring Gramma...
He had all grown-up food for Thanksgiving dinner, some roasted vegetables, extra cooked apples from the apple pie and he tried mashed potatoes for the first time! He made a terrible "this is disgusting!" face after his first bite. He makes that face after trying everything for the first time though, so I don't think he actually dislikes mashed potatoes. He did like the tiny bit of pumpkin banana mousse tart I gave him though. I guess sugar makes everything taste good, no matter how old you are!
And now that Thanksgiving has come and gone, our family can finally move into the Christmas season. There will be much more on that in the weeks to come, but for now, here's a little preview - Baby B's Christmas pajamas!!
Silly baby, he has no idea what's coming. But it's going to be fun!!
Friday, November 18, 2011
Exciting day!
We also woke up to our first frost of the fall on the ground this morning. Baby B didn't notice though, he was too busy playing with his toys after breakfast. (And yes, that bright orange beer stein that he is holding is one of his toys.)
I love this toy corner of the kitchen. This morning it distracted him enough that I could enjoy my warm bowl of oatmeal with brown sugar, raisins, and homemade cranberry sauce for breakfast without a baby fussing at my feet for attention. Although that didn't last for long...remember when I was telling you how he likes to pull himself up on our legs now and hold on? This is what that looks like from my perspective -
Or, from a different angle -
Today is also exciting because it's been three days in a row where I've been able to get Baby D to nap in the morning! We've been really struggling with that for a couple weeks. I guess this is the stressful part of my "job", trying to get a baby who I know is tired to calm down enough to fall asleep. Anyway, morning nap time is back, at least for today, and we are all happier.
After the morning nap we went grocery shopping, which doesn't sound all that exciting but it's an exciting challenge for me. You try fitting half a week's worth of groceries in a cart filled with two babies. They were both very helpful when it came to unloading the groceries at home.
Now they are both sleeping, again for a little bit (score!) so I have a couple minutes of down time before the rest of my exciting day continues. Auntie A is on her way up to hang with us and then go see the movie with me tonight. Hubby T is staying home to babysit but I got him Captain Planet from the Redbox to watch so he can't complain too much. Plus, I'm making a homemade hawaiian pizza for dinner. I love having so much fun stuff to look forward to in my life and hope each of you do as well.
Tuesday, November 15, 2011
When Mama P is sick
Baby B and I wore sweats all day. I love having a job that allows me to wear sweats when I don't feel good. Especially when they become covered in snot by 8:30. Imagine what they look like by 4:30!
We didn't go shoe shopping like I was planning for today. The boys were really disappointed, especially Baby D.
We forgot to put on bibs when eating, and by we I mean me. Baby D got halfway through breakfast before I remembered his bib and Baby B got completely through lunch with no bib. I didn't even realize it until we went up to his room to play after lunch and thought, "Huh, why is his shirt so dirty? Oh geez, did I forget to put a bib on him too?!"
The boys had a lot of free play time, meaning I sat or laid on something close by and watched them play with whatever they wanted, including Baby B's swing. (I can't believe how small an amount of time it's been since he fit in this thing!)
And finally, for dinner tonight we let Baby B feed himself some freshly cooked acorn squash. Which led to squash all over his clothes. Which led to baby nakedness in the kitchen.
Which led to this adorable frog bathrobe:)
He looks like a little boxing champ when it hangs open:) Hopefully he can box these colds away so that we can both feel better soon!!
Saturday, November 12, 2011
What's new
One of his favorite new activities when he wants our attention is to crawl over, pull himself up on our legs, and hold on.
He's in the process of sitting down in this picture, but I'm sure any of you who are parents know what I'm talking about. The funniest part of all this is that when he's holding on, he will move with us if we move. There's no escaping!! For example, yesterday, Baby B was gently poking Baby D in the face. (I try to stop this whenever I can, but sometimes pokes get through.) So Baby D started getting fussy and when I scolded Baby B and pushed his hand away, he started crying too. So I picked up Baby D to comfort him, which prompted Baby B to pull himself up on my leg and cry harder. So, with two babies clinging to me and crying, we very slowly inched across the kitchen to get to the high chair so that I could put Baby D down and then pick up Baby B. Fortunately it was lunch time, so some cheerios and puffs cheered those babies up pretty quick:)
Baby B has also started making kissing sounds! He doesn't make the kiss shape with his lips, but the sound is a kiss sound. He imitates us if we do it, so we're having fun making kiss sounds at him and having him "kiss" us back. I can't wait until he gives me a hug and kisses my cheek for real, but for now I'll take this.
On a not so exciting note, Baby B has a crazy red skin thing going on around his mouth. At first I thought it was happening because the air is drying out as it gets colder and with all the saliva around his mouth, somehow it was irritating the skin. Baby D's mom suggested yesterday that he might have a teething rash. That's hard to know for sure since he doesn't have any teeth yet but completely possible. We're using some baby aveeno lotion to try and keep it in check, which is kind of working. Fortunately it doesn't bother him at all, but he looks very red!
And if the tired eyes in this picture don't tell you, Baby B is also coming down with a cold of some sort:( His nose started getting runny late yesterday and has gotten worse throughout the day. I think I startled another lady at the grocery store this morning when I almost shouted, "Yay for Mommy! We do have boogie wipes!" when I remembered that there were indeed boogie wipes in the diaper bag and I wouldn't have to wipe his nose with pieces of our clothing to get through the shopping trip. The quote of the night from dinner table tonight was, "Oh, sorry bud. I didn't mean to get that booger in your eye." It's okay Hubby T, wiping a baby's nose is tricky when they don't want you to:) I'm coming down with a version of what he has as well, so we both took 2 hours naps this afternoon. Hopefully there will be plenty more of that tomorrow and not as much this -
Thursday, November 10, 2011
What have you done to help the world today?
Okay, I know this might sound like an advertising gimick, but it's not. All you have to do is go to this website and click a button that says you pledge to take care of your eyesight, something I bet every reader of this blog already does. And with that one click, you help out kids in need.
I read about this on another blog and thought, "I never would have known about this if I hadn't read this blog. Maybe I should put this on my blog so that other people will read my blog and think the same thing."
So, have you done something to help the world today?
Wednesday, November 9, 2011
Four things
Because both boys slept, I had time to make these delicious muffins. And they're filled with veggies, so they can be consumed virtually guilt free - awesome!
At dinner tonight Hubby T told me, in all seriousness, that he couldn't wait to look at the precinct data in our area to figure out how our town voted yesterday. Yes hubby dear, I will agree with your Facebook post - you are a government dork.
I finally bought Baby B a winter hat yesterday. And yes, it is even cuter in person. Now we just need some good winter weather to test it out in (Colorado in January anyone?!:)
Monday, November 7, 2011
Ode to Little Boys
I love waking with you to greet each day.
I rub the sleep out of my eyes and rise (mostly) with a smile
because there's no more rest when you are ready to play!
Baby B was here!
Reading poems, reading books,
so many words for you to learn!
The only thing that could be better
is if you would someday learn to take turns!
Causing mischief at every turn,
I have to keep a pretty sharp eye on you.
But I don't mind, not one little bit,
because what could be better than looking at you two?!
Someday I know you'll both grow up,
you'll be big and strong and tall.
But until then, I'll love playing with you silly babies,
who make me the happiest and luckiest mommy of all.